Together

Hello there,

 How long has it been since I last posted? Nine months,maybe? I am indeed a bad blogger.I've noticed a trend here though; I am either here in the beginning of the year or at the end of the year,haha.I deeply apologise for my absence.But I do have reasons foy my absence.Form four was an entirely new thing for me;the syllybuses,the people,the ambiance.There were a lot of new things to take in.The year started pretty fine at first but it got a little out of hand in the middle of the year.I participated in a lot of school activities this year.I thought  I could handle it all well but it was indeed a little shaky for a while.But Alhamdulillah,it was not that bad and I have just recently ended my finals and I am on my holiday.That is right guys,I am free from school and free from exams,for the moment.

Let's have a little reflection session,shall we.Like every year,I learned a lot of new things,I experienced new things,I understand things more,the picture that was once very vague,is now very distinct;basically things that make me a more muture person than I was before.I have to say it was a very intense roller coaster ride this year.I think,for a moment,I experienced what they call "culture shock",probably because I haven't fully habituated yet.I'm not very sure how to explain how I was feeling.But it affected me emotionally and I was questioning myself whether what I was doing is right.I was wondering whether I was just experiencing another adolenscene phase in my life and if it was normal,until I came across a video on Youtube and yes it is indeed very normal to doubt what you are doing as a teenage.This 'dramatic' episode in my life made me realised that sometimes we should not over think things and just keep on doing the things that will help us in the future even if it makes you feel skeptical,at the moment.Just make sure that what you are doing is not something illegal or will harm other people,haha.

Anyway,I came across a post on Instagram by Weylie,a youtuber.Her caption was everything that I've always wanted to say on this subject.She said;

"Spread love. You can't have it all. One thing I really learned from experience. I used to always think, if I work hard for what I have, you should too. There is truth in that tho, don't get me wrong. But an eye for an eye, makes the world go blind. What happened to helping others? A lesson I learned in life is that you can't have it all. The best part of life is the ability to give and help others. Sick and tired of how competitive social media and our generation have become. Don't help because you want something in return. Help because you want to put love and good into the world. At the same time, the one receiving: appreciate & spread that love along to others who need it just as much as you did." - Weylie

I noticed that we live in a world where people hope for others to fail just so they would be above them.It's pretty sad,if you asked me.I just hope we would all root for each other and genuinely wish the best for others.Being competitive is good but too competitive to the point where you only think about yourself,I dont't think so and don't you think it would be more meaningful and beautiful if we get want we want,together :-)

This turned out to be a rather serious post but it's what I wanted to say.Untill then,cheerio

Have a nice weekend,

Diyanah Nadrah